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Lee, San Diego CA..
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May 19, 2026 at 1:29 pm #176714
cathy
ParticipantSo many feign sincere desire to serve, elevate the position of the Dominant in their lives and voice their deepest burning need to be put in the position of slave, servant, or submissive. Having been active in lifestyle practices for over 10 years I have held and kept a few submissives along the way.
I know what the lifestyle should and could be in its fullness, fulfillment and entirety.
i seek a perfect gentleman ,that will submit to me and serve me. -
May 20, 2026 at 1:38 pm #176793
johnParticipantHello Cathy,
You sound like a strong, confident and determined dominant woman who has a true appreciation for male surrender and submission to women. I have long understood my place and purpose: service and submission to women. I write widely on the topic of women leading men and have for a number of years. I would love to interview you for my blog – via email and anonymously – to help inform other women – and worthy submissive men – of your views and insights as a dominant woman. My blog is: submissivemale.blogspot.com and my email address is on it. Thank you.Deferentially,
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June 5, 2026 at 2:40 pm #178278
Lee, San Diego CA.
ParticipantHello,
Your profile stood out to me because it reflects experience, confidence, and a clear understanding of what you seek in a relationship. I appreciate your distinction between those who merely talk about submission and those who genuinely understand the commitment, trust, and consistency that a D/s dynamic requires.
I consider myself a gentleman first and respectful, honest, and attentive. While I understand that submission is earned through trust and compatibility rather than simply declared, I am drawn to the idea of serving a woman who knows herself, values loyalty, and embraces her dominant role with purpose and grace.
What interests me most is building a meaningful connection where both people feel fulfilled in their respective roles. I would enjoy learning more about your expectations, your experiences in the lifestyle, and what qualities you value most in a submissive partner.
Thank you for sharing your profile. I look forward to hearing more about you if you feel we may be a good match.
Warm regards, Lee
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