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Dear all,
I don’t know if this topic has already been discussed here before. I could not find any forum entries, but accept my apologies if I repeat an old discussion.
It’s about FLR and kids, especially the question of when and how to get our daughter involved in our FLR. My beloved wife and I have never hidden the special nature of our relationship to our daughter. It is perfectly natural for her to see that daddy is doing all the housework, errands etc. while her mother is enjoying her time with her friends. Now our daughter will soon be 12, and her mother is wondering whether or not to allow her to also give me tasks, correct my behavior etc.
What do you think about this. Anyone with experience in a similar situation? Any help will be greatly appreciated.Best,
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Keep your daughter out of it completely. Allow her to be a child.
The questions are disturbing and there appears to be little thought of the impact this could have on her later on.
Glad you and your wife have a wonderful relationship. Let your daughter witness your mutual love and respect as normal but remember…she’s a child. -
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you have great idea to involve your daughter in FLR life style. its hard to say at what age is proper for her to give you tasks and correct your behaviours. its up to you and her maturity level. but even right now she is watching the dad behaving mom as queen, he is doing all chroes and errands, so its great your daughter is awking she is princess of the home and she is superiour than males. its better let daughter put her feet on daddy as foot stol, make her good foot massages, polish her toenails and fingernails, make her pedicure and manicure to make her feel better she is superiour princess. she will probably ask you questions about FLR life style answer them honestly. she is perfectly normalizing FLR style from her daily family life. so with your helps she will discover her dominant and leader side better and she will be great leader on daddy soon.
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I think if daughter grows in FLR family it will be natural to her.
I my view the bigger problem is a son that a daughter.
If a boy is growing in FLR family it Ken form his mentality and do not let him to choice his life way when hi start his own relationships.
Daughter will formed as strong alpha what is good for her. But son will be formed to beta boy role what not necessarily will be good to him
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Keep your kids or any kids out of it,,,, period…
Kids have nothing to do with the arrangements you and your wife have, if she gets older it’s already the question if it will be (or if she will be) oke for her to be exposed to your and your wife arrangements. I think in my country its actually illegal and it will be seen as grooming and (sexual)child abuse (I think this is fair).
FLR is an arrangement between 2 (adult) partners/lovers and kids should not take part in those arrangements.If this page consent to pulling kids in this lifestyle this is definitely not the place for me,, and I would love to see this post removed. Each there own is perfectly fine until kids or other people without the possibility for consent or mental power to understand what is really going on are drawn into it.
If a couple have kids they should keep the FLR a bit on the low, having kids was your choice but FLR not theirs… so deal with it and set your way of living to the side until there are out of the house.
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It is not okay to involve children in this.
I’m not kink shaming, but bringing your kids into this is no longer kink. It is ethically and perhaps legally wrong to do.
As others have said, please keep this to your selves and allow kids to grow on their own without being overly burdened by the FLR dynamic between the parents. -
Good grief, it is NOT ok to bring your child into this. There might even be negative legal implications to doing such a thing. Get that thought out of your head. It is enough that she sees behavior between you and your Wife. It would be highly inappropriate to have your 12 y.o. daughter give you commands or even think she could. She is first and foremost your child.
However, she will at some point discuss this with her friends and see how their parents interact and see it is completely different from her own household. At that point it is likely she will become confused and conflicted. At that time it is up to the two of you, your Wife and you, to calmly explain there are different ways that families work together and this works for you guys. You don’t need a lot of details at least at the get go. When she gets to about 25 y.o. is the time you – and more importantly your Wife – can tell her more about how things work, if she shows an interest.
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