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August 28, 2022 at 5:22 pm #41869KurtParticipant
Dear all,
I don’t know if this topic has already been discussed here before. I could not find any forum entries, but accept my apologies if I repeat an old discussion.
It’s about FLR and kids, especially the question of when and how to get our daughter involved in our FLR. My beloved wife and I have never hidden the special nature of our relationship to our daughter. It is perfectly natural for her to see that daddy is doing all the housework, errands etc. while her mother is enjoying her time with her friends. Now our daughter will soon be 12, and her mother is wondering whether or not to allow her to also give me tasks, correct my behavior etc.
What do you think about this. Anyone with experience in a similar situation? Any help will be greatly appreciated.Best,
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August 29, 2022 at 3:46 pm #41955AntonyParticipant
Being “corrected” by your 11yo daughter? Perhaps not the best idea of all time.
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August 29, 2022 at 3:59 pm #41956KurtParticipant
What age would you suggest?
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February 28, 2024 at 8:04 pm #99902Subby HubbyParticipant
I love how you describe your roles here. Wondering how the daughter thing worked out.
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September 4, 2022 at 1:39 am #42472MadameShhhParticipant
Keep your daughter out of it completely. Allow her to be a child.
The questions are disturbing and there appears to be little thought of the impact this could have on her later on.
Glad you and your wife have a wonderful relationship. Let your daughter witness your mutual love and respect as normal but remember…she’s a child. -
September 5, 2022 at 6:48 pm #42597Romantic to Females onlyParticipant
Kurt,
How I wish I were in your position 🙂
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March 13, 2024 at 2:20 pm #102052footfever77Participant
you have great idea to involve your daughter in FLR life style. its hard to say at what age is proper for her to give you tasks and correct your behaviours. its up to you and her maturity level. but even right now she is watching the dad behaving mom as queen, he is doing all chroes and errands, so its great your daughter is awking she is princess of the home and she is superiour than males. its better let daughter put her feet on daddy as foot stol, make her good foot massages, polish her toenails and fingernails, make her pedicure and manicure to make her feel better she is superiour princess. she will probably ask you questions about FLR life style answer them honestly. she is perfectly normalizing FLR style from her daily family life. so with your helps she will discover her dominant and leader side better and she will be great leader on daddy soon.
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March 18, 2024 at 1:03 pm #102614st998Participant
She is 12. leave her out of it. My vote would be to never involve her in it. Anyway, it’s your life but you did ask for opinions and this is mine.
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May 24, 2024 at 12:20 pm #106603MissMayaParticipant
Dont involve kids. In some countries/states that is even illegal and can get you in big trouble. What you and your wife so is your own thing, the kids didn`t consent to that.
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October 13, 2024 at 6:46 pm #116770ObedientParticipant
I think if daughter grows in FLR family it will be natural to her.
I my view the bigger problem is a son that a daughter.
If a boy is growing in FLR family it Ken form his mentality and do not let him to choice his life way when hi start his own relationships.
Daughter will formed as strong alpha what is good for her. But son will be formed to beta boy role what not necessarily will be good to him
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October 21, 2024 at 5:49 am #117153HappyMarriedParticipant
Keep your kids or any kids out of it,,,, period…
Kids have nothing to do with the arrangements you and your wife have, if she gets older it’s already the question if it will be (or if she will be) oke for her to be exposed to your and your wife arrangements. I think in my country its actually illegal and it will be seen as grooming and (sexual)child abuse (I think this is fair).
FLR is an arrangement between 2 (adult) partners/lovers and kids should not take part in those arrangements.If this page consent to pulling kids in this lifestyle this is definitely not the place for me,, and I would love to see this post removed. Each there own is perfectly fine until kids or other people without the possibility for consent or mental power to understand what is really going on are drawn into it.
If a couple have kids they should keep the FLR a bit on the low, having kids was your choice but FLR not theirs… so deal with it and set your way of living to the side until there are out of the house.
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