I want a boyfriend but I probably can’t get one.

[Ilovecolors]

And it frustrates me.

[To love and obey]

Why?

[Ilovecolors]

I hope it’s not because I’m way way way below a 0 on the beauty scale phydically or a 1 on the beauty scale physically.

[Anonymous]

Honestly? We would have to see a picture to really know.

[Ilovecolors]

It frustrates me that It might be because I’m way way way below a 0 on the beauty scale physically or rated a 1 on the beauty scale physically why I probably can’t find a boyfriend.

[Ralph]

Beauty is only skin deep,many (not all)youger males do not get that.That probaly does not help you and you have heard that before,however it is very true. The right person (Male) will come along and see you as you regardlees of your looks (or how YOU seem to think you look)!. Of course you still have to try and make yourself somewhat presentable ie:reg.hygiene etc.Good luck

[Ilovecolors]

It frustrates me that you said good luck cause it might mean it may or may not happen.

[Ralph]

In now way was it meant to frustrate you or was it said in a negative way.I am sorry you took it in that manner.

[Ilovecolors]

That it might not happen.

[Ralph]

The opposite ,I believe it will happen.I mentioned in a thread above that younger males (not all) however many seem to put more on looks of a female before anything else.Relationships are made alot more than only looks.Infact if you were to make a list it would/should be on the lower number.Honesty, humour,laughter,caring,romance,and more come way before beauty!I am an older male 62 yrs. ,yet started at age 47 when became divorced back into trying to date.I myself do not believe I am a 0-1 but maybe a 3-4 (normal guy) we all lower ourselves.I am far from a 9-10 I know that much.However with age & looks well finding a women has been far from easy . Finding a FLR woman even harder ,that really makes the odds even slimmer.Women do the same ,seem to put alot on looks first ,then once start to talk find other character traights out.
Would very much like to chat more if you so choose,understand if you do not . Here or on my site ,little more private .
Hope to hear from you

[Ilovecolors]

I would

[Anonymous]

Would it be appropriate to ask you if you might be interested in an online friendship? I too hide a bit behind the anonymity of the Internet. Looking forward to hearing from you. 🙂

[Anonymous]

If you are still looking, please send me a note.

[Bobbie]

It seems to me that somehow You need to elevate Your self esteem, especially if Your goal is to be the leader in Your relationship.
Have You thought about wearing attractive outfits? I don’t mean slutty provocative things, but tasteful, subtly sexy clothes like short skirts, nylons and high heels…and with the appropriate foundation garments to maximize your body. I’ve probably upset a lot of feminists by saying that, but lots of males respond to those kind of signals.

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