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I am a lifestyle Dominant Jewish woman (been Dominant all my life, since before I had words for it really) in Brookline, MA, seeking a jewish (ideally) male sub, age 55-64. I would certainly consider someone who is not jewish, but would prefer that he has had prior exposure to Judaism and, perhaps more importantly, Jewish culture. Metro Boston or Metro NYC would be best but I would consider those in other locations if they can be creative about how to manage the distance between us.
I seek 24/7 submission on a psychological level and physical submission at my whim. Of course, that is something that is built gradually over time in a relationship, once trust has been established. Mine is a loving, nurturing Domination. I am not a sadist, but am very strict. That is, I don’t believe in pain for the sake of pain alone, but I do believe in discipline and training, and there is certainly pain inherent in that. I am a firm believer in the value of domestic discipline, principally otk spanking with a hairbrush and corner time. I’m not really into anything extreme. It is perhaps true that one might describe the situation that I am looking for as more of a Female Led Relationship (FLR) than a more bdsm-centric kind of interaction.
My sub is my treasure and I want to make sure he is well taken care of. I am very sensual and enjoy many kinds of play. But I want to be clear that play (lovely as it might be) is just that… play. It is not the most important aspect of a D/s relationship. For me this is truly a lifestyle and not just a sexual preference or on-again-off-again thing. It is pervasive throughout my life with my sub. I am very private and monogamous. I do not engage in groups or public play, and insist on a completely vanilla exterior. My sub is mine. I choose not to share him and prefer that his attentions and adoration be centered on me. I am seeking a man who is truly a pleaser….someone who finds that he derives much of his own fulfillment from pleasing his Domme, and from giving over control to her.
I am not interested in some kind of mindless slave, but rather someone who is a person in his own right. He should have a mind and a sense of humor, and should not be afraid to use them at the appropriate times. I am looking for someone who will flourish under my guidance, not who seeks to lose himself in me. He needs to be able to be everything that I need and want him to be: my best friend, my lover, my houseboy, my personal servant, my sexual slave and more. I am not looking for casual interactions, or for “play sessions”, but rather for my lifemate, with whom I hope to explore the ins and outs of D/s for the rest of our lives while living happily in the world at large.
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This is a long story, so not so much here.
What is good for you is based on you and my desires should not be more important than yours. So my mind is to be there for you and see what happens in the future. Your vision and desires could be our future, but depends on our chemistry. Jewish not, but on the the other hand a jewish father and mother and so far a culturel jew.
The challenge is yours and we will see, if I can be yours with the building of common selfconfindence. Your world is what is what is about and hopefully I can see and live your will, but depends on , yes … I dont know, but a deep vision at least, that your happiness is mine too. Fear and insecurity is basic natural and not a turn-off, rather real feelings for you and me is a basic in life.I live outside Copenhagen.
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Hello Ma’am. I’d love to get to know you better. I’m not Jewish but grew up in S. FL within a predominately Jewish community so I know the traditions and culture well. I’ve been a submissive man most my life and now seek LTR that is completely FLR.
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