Tagged: Lifetime of service
- January 9, 2022 at 7:17 pm #24984
I am a lifestyle Dominant Jewish woman (been Dominant all my life, since before I had words for it really) in Brookline, MA, seeking a jewish (ideally) male sub, age 55-64. I would certainly consider someone who is not jewish, but would prefer that he has had prior exposure to Judaism and, perhaps more importantly, Jewish culture. Metro Boston or Metro NYC would be best but I would consider those in other locations if they can be creative about how to manage the distance between us.
I seek 24/7 submission on a psychological level and physical submission at my whim. Of course, that is something that is built gradually over time in a relationship, once trust has been established. Mine is a loving, nurturing Domination. I am not a sadist, but am very strict. That is, I don’t believe in pain for the sake of pain alone, but I do believe in discipline and training, and there is certainly pain inherent in that. I am a firm believer in the value of domestic discipline, principally otk spanking with a hairbrush and corner time. I’m not really into anything extreme. It is perhaps true that one might describe the situation that I am looking for as more of a Female Led Relationship (FLR) than a more bdsm-centric kind of interaction.
My sub is my treasure and I want to make sure he is well taken care of. I am very sensual and enjoy many kinds of play. But I want to be clear that play (lovely as it might be) is just that… play. It is not the most important aspect of a D/s relationship. For me this is truly a lifestyle and not just a sexual preference or on-again-off-again thing. It is pervasive throughout my life with my sub. I am very private and monogamous. I do not engage in groups or public play, and insist on a completely vanilla exterior. My sub is mine. I choose not to share him and prefer that his attentions and adoration be centered on me. I am seeking a man who is truly a pleaser….someone who finds that he derives much of his own fulfillment from pleasing his Domme, and from giving over control to her.
I am not interested in some kind of mindless slave, but rather someone who is a person in his own right. He should have a mind and a sense of humor, and should not be afraid to use them at the appropriate times. I am looking for someone who will flourish under my guidance, not who seeks to lose himself in me. He needs to be able to be everything that I need and want him to be: my best friend, my lover, my houseboy, my personal servant, my sexual slave and more. I am not looking for casual interactions, or for “play sessions”, but rather for my lifemate, with whom I hope to explore the ins and outs of D/s for the rest of our lives while living happily in the world at large.
- January 10, 2022 at 11:56 am #25022sweetpParticipant
- March 22, 2022 at 3:44 pm #28667SeekingAlphaFParticipant
Good morning! I enjoyed your introduction. It seems we share common relationship philosophies. Do you ever make it to Florida to get out of the Northern winter weather?
- May 15, 2022 at 5:07 pm #31237JuniorpartnerParticipant
Hi. Thank you for giving me an opportunity to introduce myself. I’m a 62 yo Jewish widower living n Albany NY. My life involved me worshiping & taking care of the needs of my wife for 30 years. Now that she has passed there’s an emptiness in me that is painful because my wife & I had such a wonderful relationship. I would be involved in the day-to-day decision making but ultimately my wife had the final word in everything we did. My greatest pleasure was in serving her & making sure she was happy & fulfilled. We didn’t call our relationship a D/s but it was clear who was in charge. I’ve always been submissive due to some early childhood formative experiences & I was most happy when I was proving the depth of my submission to her. So your post has been up for a while & I hope you’ve found the man you want, but in the event you’re still looking I thought I’d introduce myself. Shalom.
- January 13, 2022 at 6:07 pm #25199AnonymousInactive
This is a long story, so not so much here.
What is good for you is based on you and my desires should not be more important than yours. So my mind is to be there for you and see what happens in the future. Your vision and desires could be our future, but depends on our chemistry. Jewish not, but on the the other hand a jewish father and mother and so far a culturel jew.
The challenge is yours and we will see, if I can be yours with the building of common selfconfindence. Your world is what is what is about and hopefully I can see and live your will, but depends on , yes … I dont know, but a deep vision at least, that your happiness is mine too. Fear and insecurity is basic natural and not a turn-off, rather real feelings for you and me is a basic in life.
I live outside Copenhagen.
- January 13, 2022 at 7:37 pm #25207
Thank you for your note. I responded to you via a private message.
- January 13, 2022 at 10:20 pm #25223subjasoncuckParticipant
Hello Ma’am. I’d love to get to know you better. I’m not Jewish but grew up in S. FL within a predominately Jewish community so I know the traditions and culture well. I’ve been a submissive man most my life and now seek LTR that is completely FLR.
- January 13, 2022 at 11:31 pm #25230
Thank you for your note. I sent you a private message.
- January 16, 2022 at 11:40 pm #25553adventureseekerParticipant
Hello Ma’am. I’m not Jewish, but would like to serve someone of your stature. Would like to learn more about you.
- January 18, 2022 at 3:30 pm #25703sparkyflrParticipant
Starting to wish I was Jewish 🧐
- January 18, 2022 at 3:34 pm #25705
Very sweet of you to say. I wish you all the best and hope you soon find what you seek.
- January 19, 2022 at 6:17 am #25768sparkyflrParticipant
- February 24, 2022 at 12:26 pm #27712submissivemorganParticipant
Good morning–I just found your ad and would like to show interest. I too look for such a relationship that you describe. I’m interested in a lifetime, finding joy in being submissive to you–but not by losing myself. I’d love to hear more from you. I’m a chatterbox but with save my chatter for a reply if you wish to learn more about me.
- February 24, 2022 at 2:34 pm #27728
Thank you for your note. I responded to you via private message.
- March 6, 2022 at 4:24 pm #28119Mark / AshleyParticipant
Ma’am I am new to this site. I have read everything you have written three times. I’m not mindless and quickly learn my place. As I have written before I am truly the beta male. To answer to your every whim is something that I already have been trained for. A vanilla exterior is great. It’s nobody’s business what we are about. I do in fact have a fantastic sense of humor! I believe that I can take care of all your needs for the rest of my life.
- March 22, 2022 at 7:04 pm #28677
Thank you for your note. I will respond to you privately.
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