Seeking spiritual connection & relationship that is cultivated and develops in a strict D/s dynamic with a naturally dominate female comfortable with authority and leadership from the get go yet that develops and is formalized. I really want to connect and submit first and foremost through service and a role of helpfulness and usefulness, as well as an acknowledgment of the spiritual nature of the dynamic that is centered and footed in the dominants powe, divinity, and Authority, and cultivated through our dynamic .
For me it’s all worship from service to intimacy.
I believe that a trial/training period where in I am providing service and being trained and molded to serve you specifically, customized for my dominant. I see this training trial period as a time to develop and earn trust, respect confidence, and good chemistry and harmony, a time to get to know each other and connect all the while cultivating a solid D/s dynamic before engaging in any intimacy.
Intimacy is a broad term that encompasses alot in my use, including kink sex, and non sexual forms of service.
As far as limits I want nothing to do with female degradation, or sadism directed at females. I have no desire to do or to switch, or interest in anything to do with children including role play. Not into race play.
As for soft limits and limits in general, other than what I listed Above I’m very open minded and work on being very open due to my belief that. Sub should take on the kinks of his dominant if he wishes to serve her, and should not have a load of fantasies for her to fulfill. I’m open to enduring suffering for my dominants pleasure or relief and feel it would be special and I timate to do so, I would find pleasure in the experience as being that for them not necessarily from pain. I want to explore the kinks of my dominant and let her push and find my limit. I feel it could be best and desirable to explore non sexual kinks before engaging in sexual connection.
Really I have no interest in male centered sex where foreplay warms it up for intercourse which is limited by the male orgasm which also ends the experience.
I’d like to abstain from intercourse or stimulation of my own genitals while exploring the complex of errogenous zones that lay dormant in most cases all throughout the female form. Nipple orgasms, orgasms from sensual massage of feet and scalp, yomi massage, in the vein of a pillow princess type experience where all focus is on the female, none in the male.
The purpose of this is due to the appropriate ess of exploring those areas and to have access to reaching orgasms through focussed attention, but also as a method of training; of sexual energy to divert it from the sex drive, or drive for me as a male to engage in intercourse and cum, so that it can be accumulated and abided in as sexual energy, Kundalini as I learn to dissociate intimate activity with my own orgasm or pleasure in the sense usually associated with male centered sex, so when that stage is reached where intercourse is had in the nature of acres sex the passions are under control and there is more control of male orgasm allowing us to reach ecstatic states. There is more involving energy shifting similar to energy shifting done by shamans, but in this case it is sexual energies that can be exchanged through movements and accepted in ecstatic states and Kundalini energy.
This would take a partner who both sex, connection, and spirituality are priorities, with a strong sexual appetite, yet with control.
Becoming comfortable, having developed trust and acceptance from me of my partner as well as their acceptance of mine is important for me. I would like to develope this before intmacy, and to have intimate duties as part of my service once those are developed. I strongly desire grooming and bathing my dominant, doing their nails and make up. Learning how to do these things like a pro. The honor of developing closeness and connections through washing and bathing my dominant with out thought of getting some as a way to feel close and for her to know she is accepted is exciting, and to develope that level of closeness before sexual type intimacy seems desirable for how it would affect the quality of the experience and the connection..
A cunnilingus centric relationship where sex is sacred and practiced as such that is based in service and spirituality and cultivation of the divine as lovers, as owner and property and as Goddess and Acolyte is the ideal, but with all that said what I really am seeking is the dynamic and service to the point of near slavery, and that ends up as slavery eventually.
It’s what I need now for so many reasons, and the main reason I want a service only as the starting platform is due to that I will become obsessed and infatuated unable to finish a book I’m writing due to being preoccupied completely with the dominant.
I’m a writer working on my life’s work, and feel compelled to finish it while committed to service. It would be wonderful to have a dominant who would schedule writing/work time for me to expedite the completion.
That would be the time I feel would be best to end trial period and for my dominant to decide if I stay or go, and which way if any they want the dynamic to change or develop. That would be the time to deepen the contract and to enter a more committed stage, possibly you will want me as your property.
I think if the trial as a training period and a period of courtship of the dominant.
I know I could be happy as. Slave for life, yet my hopes would be for it to develope into an FLR.
So after courtship things can be reassessed, possibly a business venture, and of course the dominants involvement in the book is desired, and all that may come from that.
I consider myself a matriarchal male. I’m repelled and abhor male authority andale hierarchies yet find a dominant females use of me and reliance grounding and comforting and inyeatn and long tonserve- a submissive with a slaves heart who desires to belong and be owned and to devote himself fully.
I’m a female supremacist and passionate about it in all aspects of life namely domestic, sexual, dynamical and spiritually.