I am suspending my search for now. I have found these sites to be kind of a waste of time.
I think I am going to fish more, hike more and read more.
The electronic screens in general, and in particular searching for connection on-line, are sometimes addictive behaviors. I am making efforts to make better use of the time and good health that I am fortunate enough to enjoy here on Earth.
Thanks and good wishes to those with whom I have communicated on this site. Good wishes to all in all of your own endeavors.