I discovered FLR due to a long time spanking interest. I didn’t know that wives and girlfriends actually spanked their husbands/boyfriends for real when they disobeyed, were dishonest and/or disrespectful. I knew I craved feminine power but lacked motivation and the will to submit to it. Spanking and discipline provides that for me.
I also discovered cfnm, worship and submission. Though there is an undeniable sexual energy from them I came to realize for me they are just a tool to help me be devoted to the woman who leads me.
I love having a woman who has earned my submission and that rush I feel when we have matured to the place I willingly and longingly call her “Ma’am”.