I am seeking a long-term Female-led relationship (Level 3 to 4) with a loving and intelligent woman. I have an easy going and gentle personality while strongly wired to serve and please the Lady in the manner she desires. I have had some FLR experiences although still in the learning curve of FLR. I am compatible with many personalities including those who may be strict and rule with a firm hand.
I took the FLR quiz on this site and agree with the results! The quiz said FLR would be an ideal relationship for me along with the following description: “You’ve found the lifestyle for you! You may enjoy a more formal or extreme level of FLR. You would love for a woman to take the reins on the most important elements of your life, making it your job to worship and obey.”
I am flexible in the roles I can take on, ranging anywhere from taking care of the domestic chores to being the knight in shining armor protecting his Queen.
I have found obedience is a critical aspect of a successful FLR. I look forward to finding the one whom I will pledge my forever obedience too.
The long term relationship I seek will be seen as a loving and happy relationship to the outside world. Which of course it will be! The causal observer will see us as the perfect couple and wonder what the secret is to our happiness! Inside the relationship there will be no doubt the key to our happiness. Its the Lady holding the power and authority and me supporting and serving her as she desires. I don’t mind if close friends/family understand the power dynamics of our relationship.
I consider myself to be reasonable intelligent with good ideas most of the time. I have a college degree and a good professional career. The Lady may even find some of my ideas useful at times and may even delegate certain things to me. But, ultimately we both agree She has the authority to make final decisions. And I agree to happily and enthusiastically obey and support her decisions. While domestic focused, I also have a good professional career and financially sound.
I like the idea of writing a relationship contract spelling out explicitly the power structure of the relationship with the lady having control. Plus building into the relationship agreement real control mechanisms. Such as an unbreakable chastity device that only she can open. Full control over finances so I need her approval to spend money. If She controls the orgasms and the money then the power becomes real!
As the quiz results said, my focus is to worship and obey the lady. My focus is to make her life better in the manner she desires. To be the supportive partner, free her up from mundane day to day tasks so she can accomplish her goals in life. And to make sure her leisure time is pleasurable and fun for her. Its my nature to feel pleasure only when I see my partner happy!
Like all good relationships, they do not instantly happen. They take time to develop and grow. I look forward to finding the Lady of my dreams and dedicating myself to her and ensuring her happiness and surrendering power to her.
Good luck and best wishes to all)