Strict Loving Wife

I know what I want!
Do you?

I am the Strict yet Loving Wife Type

What I Am Seeking is One Exemplary Alpha Male

I am Not a professional dominatrix.

I am Seeking a Male submissive/slave for FLR TPE LTR
ultimately for a lifestyle marriage

I do not seek just any man.
I am looking for My lost pearl

You will be an Alpha male in the vanilla world and in your career, a handsome, refined gentleman, intelligent, wise, wildly successful, ambitious, healthy, financially and emotionally stable, well traveled, physically fit HWP, masculine, generous, kind, thoughtful, giving, you live a luxurious life within your means, you have exemplary qualities, you know what you want and you are ready to live this lifestyle.

The type of male I am seeking will most likely be running his own business.

This should help those who are guessing if they are the type of male I am seeking.

This is not a passing thought for you as it is not one for Me!
You have thought it through and are ready to live this lifestyle

There must be some physical attraction and meeting of the minds.

I am seeking a mature male.
Maturity has nothing to do with age.

I am not seeking a boy, even though I may call you My boy.

you will protect Me
you will provide for Me
you will serve Me
you will service Me

It is My plan to Relocate Too you or where I desire.
[of course, within reason of what is realistic.]

I will design this relationship and through many discussions I will know what is realistic for us.

I expect you to be sane and understand the relationship will be all within reason and sensible, always safe and sane.

I can take you down that rabbit hole!
How far down the rabbit hole do you desire to go?

After I know you well enough to see that there is potential.
We will plan an approximate date to meet.

Let Me be clear:
We will exchange message here.
We will exchange emails.
We will have a phone call or two, starting with a text message.
Both email and phone will be verified before any further communication with these.
I will exchange a photo with you after we have communicated through all these other avenues.

I will Not discuss My kinks and fetishes with you in the beginning.
I am not granting fodder for those seeking it.
Trust Me, My mind is deep and often twisted with desires you read about.
I can be sensual and loving or My mind can go all the way to the other end of the spectrum.

Where would you like to go?
Stop day dreaming! and Read on>>>>

I Aim to have a successful lifelong relationship ultimately marriage with the right man.

I am a Private person and I expect your public reputation is important to you as well.

I am not posting pictures of Myself, I suspect you would rather be at My side at a dinner or event and not want anyone reading this site to suspect your role in My life.
If you earn this position in My life we will discuss what is acceptable and not acceptable. Until then the Rule is to maintain privacy!

I have lived true FLRs

FLRs are not about kinks and fetishes although some kinks and fetishes are great tools and rewards in this lifestyle.
I am open to hearing what you desire in these areas.
Matter of fact I will ask you about these desires and needs at some point.

I will expect you to prove to Me you are Not playing an online game And that you are Truly Serious and Genuine.

I expect your real first name.
A relationship which will last is built on trust and it begins with open, honest, forthright communication and that communication starts with a real first name.

I am a micromanager within the realms of our agreement
I am a strict yet loving nurturing mothering wife type
I discipline and I control orgasms and possibly a whole lot more.

I get two votes you get one if you are lucky!

I Will Use you to the Best of your ability!

I want to use your brain, hear about your experiences, about your life, the knowledge you have, and the wisdom you hold within you.

you will not lack self esteem!

I want to hear what you think, feel and know.
I will take your opinion into consideration but I will have the final say.
All within reason and by design of our agreement

Once I feel I am ready to meet you, I expect you will meet Me or else!

Now you have an idea of the male I seek and what I expect from you.

Do Not Disappoint Me!

After reading My profile in Full, IF you feel you qualify to approach Me.

Then please do send Me a respectful, detailed message.
I expect a well written message, with details about you and why you feel you qualify to be My partner.
I expect a properly formatted message, start with Dear Miss, and ends with a closing and your real first name. Use spaces and blank lines to make your message easier to read.

Here are some questions I would like answered by you when you write to Me:

Tell Me about you and your life.
Tell Me what you envision.
Tell Me what you truly need, desires, and seek.
Tell Me your experiences.
Tell Me what you bring to the table.
Tell Me what you have to offer Me in life and lifestyle.
Express to Me what you truly Need at the deepest level.
Then express what you think you want if you are unsure.
Express to Me what you think I am seeking!

I am a lovely, attractive Lady.
Mature, intelligent, focused, wise, clean, DDF, and ready on many levels.
I carry a few extra pounds.
My weight may change at some point, up or down.
My weight should be of no issue.

In our relationship I will dress and look My best.
I will expect you to ensure this to be possible.
I plan to be better then I am, by always improving Myself and My life.

It will be your place to make My life easier not more challenging.

I will put 100% into the relationship and male I choose.
I expect 200% from you.
This will be an unequal relationship.

It will be apparent that I am in-charge at all times!

Its not about age its about compatibility!
Although, chemistry and being attracted to each other is of some importance.
It is much more about the compatibility.

I am the Strict yet Loving Wife Type!

I am diverse in this lifestyle to some degree.

I am not an extremist.
However, what is extreme to some is no more than normal to another.

Nonetheless, I will take you as far as I need to or to the limits we agree to.
If that mean you only take a peek into the rabbit hole, then that is what it will be.
If it means I need to take you so deep you cannot find a way out then so be it, down you go!

I am versatile in My interest I have some set must haves the rest is up for discussion when the time comes.

I will always be the Dominant, the Goddess, the Lady, the Queen, the Nurturing Motherly Wife, the Loving yet Controlling Strict Demanding Micromanager,

At the very least, I will give direction, guidance, structure, and discipline.

I come first, Always and in every situation!
your needs and desires will be secondary to Mine.
I know best and you will learn this!

you will provide Me with a great life and we will travel among other wonderful things.

I will have the Best, not second best, Understand!

Just like in a vanilla relationship the bedroom scene stays private.
Nothing illegal nor disrespectful to the general public nor family and friends.

We will share in normal vanilla life activities just as anyone else does.

I will be in charge at all times and it will not be a secret even though our kink will not be advertised. Unless you consider a FLR to be kink.

There will be covert ways to communicate in selective situations to maintain the dynamics between us, without making a scene.
you will learn My techniques for covert communication and perfect understanding them.

The Decisions Will Always Be Up To Me and what I am comfortable with, it is your place to make Me comfortable Not uncomfortable.

Take Notice:

I do find a relationship is best designed by the Woman.
Through many conversation I will learn what you deeply need and decide what is best for you. At the same time take what I truly need from you.

Each couple creates a unique recipe when they come together.
he pulls something from Her and She pulls something from within him.
This creates a unique recipe which works.

No two relationships are exactly the same.
No two Females, nor no two males are exactly alike.

I am Not here to make up your mind for you.
You had better already have done this before you contact Me.

I have a website strictlovingwify.com
I can not log onto every site every day. Email is always best, if you can’t reach Me here be patient My inboxes over flow.

Subject line in email is always:
your username My user name and the website we are connected on
Example: “your username strict loving wife aboutflr”