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Your part of quality content is to provide comments in understandable language, it is your responsibility to get your ideas across. Just criticizing another is not a quality idea. Instead provide them a well thought out reasons(s) for criticism. We want thinkers and feelers to think and feel freely while exploring this rich complex subject.

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Participating in this site means you will not post any postal mailing address or telephone number. Further no one may post an email address in a discussion thread.

General ground rules

We want the content on this website to reflect the real world, debates, conversations and essays are encouraged under the following rules.


  1. Others will read and comment on your contributions
  2. Editors, Authors, Experts, Moderators, Mentors and Monitors will read what you contribute
  3. AboutFLR.com will take the information you provide and use it to create content that helps you.


  1. Speak for yourself not your mate/partner – no second hand information
  2. Keep your language clean, swearing has it place to make a point – use it appropriately
  3. Share your experiences, desires, plans – bring it out into the light of day


  1. If you are male don’t pretend to be female and visa-versa – this is very important to everyone’s understanding of FLR
  2. If you are not an expert say so, don’t portray one. Anecdotal information is cool to share when we agree that is what it is.
  3. Don’t share lengthily kinky fantasies, upload images of naked people or sex, it is enough to know you have an interest
  4. Don’t write protracted essays – if you want to submit an essay contact the editor about adding a page.
  5. Don’t criticize or judge anyone (including government leaders or nations) – make your grievance against their ideas not against them
  6. Don’t abuse other contributors – keep your communications positive and helpful if at all possible
  7. Don’t post any want ads, or advertisement, except in the proper areas (currently the Dating section of the forums)
  8. Don’t use fetish jargon such as: sissy, sub, toy, top, bottom, Mistress/slave
  9. Don’t capitalize She, Her or any other inappropriate title unless it is at the beginning of a sentence.
  10. Don’t preach female supremacy or goddess doctrine.

This Post Has 5 Comments

  1. Stephanie

    Not sure why but the profile pic and cover pic sometimes appears 90 degrees off and no way to rotate

    1. Admin

      Are these pics you took with your phone? I often have this problem with websites with pics I took while holding my phone sideways. Edit the pic on your phone, make sure it is rotated correctly, then save it and upload the saved version. Also, the forum would be a better place for reporting problems like this.

  2. I don’t totally understand 8 being an issue: “Don’t use fetish jargon such as: sissy, sub, toy, top, bottom, Mistress/slave” I thought men on FLR are submissives, so you call them “subs,” right?

  3. Kiersten

    Hello, AboutFLR,

    I’m a past member who recently found out that you had resurrected the site in early 2020.
    You’ve been missed. Thank you for returning!

    I need to ask, why are you now (seemingly) anti-lifestyle Dominas (simply meaning formal/high protocol female dominant/leader) who seek level 4+ FLRs, not FemDom relationships in which BDSM or fetish or kink play and domestic discipline are expected, especially by the men who sometimes sink into resentment or slack in their service or attention or mood if they feel that they’re not being played with as often as they’d prefer?

    R.S.V.P., thank you.

    Best wishes. : )

    1. Admin

      Hi and welcome back to AboutFLR.com!

      I’m not sure why you think we are now anti-lifestyle Dominas, all the articles currently on the site were here when the site went offline in 2018. Some content from the old site hasn’t been transferred to the new site, the article order on the front page has changed, and the forum posts are completely new, but besides that we haven’t changed anything yet.

      Are there particular article(s) and/or content that you don’t think belong here? Or articles / content that is missing?

      If you would like to share your personal FLR philosophy or experiences I’m sure our members would love to read it!

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