[Anne]

I’m glad you asked this.

To answer your question, I will enlist the main reasons below:

1. Asian men have a very flawed idea of FLR. To them, it means nothing more than BDSM. So, they expect cheap kinks and fetishes only. Other times, they will demand submission from me since they cannot fathom a woman being in charge.

2. Asians have a cultural mandate requiring women to abide by misogynist rituals no matter how liberal they outwardly appear to be.

3. Asians are extremely religious in most asian countries. They mock atheism and, in particular, Matriarchy.

4. Contrary to popular belief, Asians are racist and classist among themselves. For example, they despise dark skinned people (especially if it’s a woman they’re considering for marriage).

5. Most of them are right wingers and homophobic.

6. They have zero literacy regarding Feminism and hence proudly badmouth it.

7. Regardless of how supposedly progressive an asian man might be, he will expect his wife to leave her parental home upon getting married, live with his family for rest of her life, and please his parents through obeying ridiculous sexist customs. They initially claim this to be temporary and only for the in-laws’ convenience but eventually end up brainwashing the lady to adapt to it for the entirety of her life.

There are more reasons. However, these were the most crucial ones that are absolutely true (since I know my own culture too well).

It’s not like I never tried to begin with Indian/Asian man but after observing more than 50 cases over past 3 years I’ve come to the conclusion that it is best for me to not to be pursueded by them.

Hope this answers your curiosity.

[Anne]

Financial abundance doesn’t guarantee any sort of loving relationship, let alone an FLR.

[Anne]

Definitely. My husband will be taking my surname. There cannot be any second thoughts about that.

But as Billy0123 pointed out, it is also true that my last name would still be a Patriarchal name being passed on. So, I’ve decided to use my first name as my child’s last name – thereby ending the patriarchal line totally while also ensuring that my husband shares the same name as I do.

From my daughter a new matrilineal lineage would begin and will only end *IF* there’s ever a son born as an only child to break that lineage.

[Anne]

Hi Alex,

Hope you’re doing well.

I know this is almost a year old post but when I came across it I couldn’t help but be intrigued by your expression. If you haven’t found your partner yet, can we please connect over text messages and perhaps exchange a few words to check compatibility?

Regards,
Anne

[Anne]

Hello Alex,

I read through all of it and found it interesting. Would you like to explain your character a bit more?

I’m also in search of my future partner but I do have a long list of preferences. Just wanted to check if we’re compatible.

Let me know if you’d be interested to discuss it first.

Regards,
Anne

[Anne]

Hi, could you please elaborate as to what you mean by you have experience?

[Anne]

Hi,

If you still haven’t found your partner yet, could you please let me know if you would be interested to discuss the potential of having a dynamic between us?

I’m Dominant a 25F from India who’s also a radical feminist. I’m 5’3″ and currently expanding my startup here in India.

If you don’t feel bothered by my nationality or distance, perhaps we can at least discuss a few things?

Thanks

[Anne]

Thanks for the detailed explanation.

Now, I have a few things to clarify here:

1. I’m a radical Feminist. So, I’m specifically looking for a man who has an elevated form of respect towards women. His attitude and view towards them should be lenient and warm. He should have this realization that women indeed have it harder in our patriarchal society and therefore he must not be rude to them or have rude notions regarding women in general.

2. I’m a Liberal who supports human rights irrespective of one’s religion, skin colour, nationality, sexual orientation etc. This means I’m a supporter of the LGBTQ+ Community and despise war and genocide. So, my man shouldn’t be a homophobe, a transphobe, or an orthodox conservative. He should be a Liberal just the way I am.

3. I’m not big on religion. I’m a Hindu by birth (in India religious identity is conferred by default upon birth). I do take part in festivities of every religion (especially when there’s good food). But I don’t believe in fairytales. Religion, according to me, is the most ancient “failed” attempt at understanding how creation functions and how creation came into existence. It’s an outdated institution that should not be followed. It’s pure manipulation and brainwashing. Every single one of them. So, I expect my man to not be religious. However, being respectful towards people’s personal religious choices is expected (as long as they aren’t dumping those mindless norms on us).

4. Since I’m in FLR for a total role reversal, I WANT my man to take my surname upon getting married. And needles to say, my daughter will obviously get my last name too. No doubts in that.

5. At the end of the day, I’m looking for a really humble, down-to-earth, well-behaved, generous, kind, and educated man who is SELFLESS and SELF-SACRIFICING.

If you fit all these criteria, then feel free to msg me.

Thanks and regards,
Anne

[Anne]

Could you please share more about you?

Like your personality, nature, physique, health, family values etc?

Your views towards women, religion, and politics?

[Anne]

Hi, thanks for your msg.

By “my daughter” I simply mean my future daughter. My baby girl born as a result of my and my partner’s union.

[Anne]

Hmmmmm

[Anne]

Hmmm. Let me know if you’re willing to submit to a woman who’s an extremely Radical Feminist but at the same time really sensitive and touchy…

[Anne]

So you’re telling me you’re attractive yet you are a virgin?

[Anne]

Which country are you from? Do you check all the points I’ve enlisted? How do you look? Are you physically attractive?

[Anne]

Hi Johnny,

Thanks for expressing interest. Most important factor is whether you are willing to madly obey your mistress or not.

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