I am a teacher and single dad in a small town near Sacramento. I am tall and athletic. I recently lost 60 pounds but need some discipline to keep it off. I lived abroad for ten years and have just recently returned to the US.
I am a liberal, feminist, and an atheist (and a 49ers fan). I like to discuss politics and philosophy with people who can do so calmly, honestly a reasonably.
I am highly educated. I enjoy writing and I am writing some fiction books about kinks. I wrote a post this website recently. I have had BDSM and submission kinks all my life and never told anyone except my wife. We are separated now and she lives overseas. I am looking for a level 3 or 4 FLR in committed relationship.