[Lee, San Diego CA.]

I appreciated how direct and intentional your post is. It’s refreshing to see someone who knows exactly what she’s looking for. I’m not looking for a chat buddy or fantasy exchange either. I’m interested in finding a real, lasting FLR with someone who genuinely enjoys leading.

A little about me: I’m single, professionally employed, independent, and live a pretty quiet life outside of work. I enjoy movies, reading, getting outdoors when I can, and spending time with the people who matter to me. I value honesty, consistency, and clear communication.

As for an FLR, I’m naturally more comfortable in a supportive and submissive role. I find fulfillment in contributing to my partner’s happiness, respecting her leadership, and building a relationship where she feels appreciated, trusted, and free to be herself. For me, submission isn’t about pretending or constant protocol, it’s about willingly giving my trust, support, and respect to the right woman in a genuine, everyday relationship.

I’m genuinely attracted to confident, plus-sized women, so your description immediately caught my attention.

If you think we might be compatible, I’d enjoy getting to know you the same way you suggested—starting with who we are in everyday life and seeing whether there’s real chemistry before anything else. I’m happy to exchange current photos as well.

Thank you for taking the time to read my message, and I hope to hear from you.
Lee

[Lee, San Diego CA.]

Your confidence is definitely intriguing, and I can tell you’ve put a lot of thought into the kind of connection you’re seeking.

I find the idea of exploring trust, vulnerability, and a deeper dynamic with the right person interesting, but I believe those things are built over time rather than assumed from the beginning. For me, genuine chemistry, communication, and mutual respect are essential.

I’d like to learn more about you, what motivates you, and how you approach these kinds of relationships. If there’s potential for a connection, I’d rather let it develop naturally and see where it leads.

What qualities do you value most in a long-term partner, beyond the roles and dynamics you’ve described?

[Lee, San Diego CA.]

Hello,

I appreciate your honesty about what you’re seeking and the way you describe a relationship built on mutual compatibility, trust, and an FLR dynamic.

I’m a single heterosexual male 80 who is comfortable with who I am and interested in finding a genuine connection with a confident woman who embraces her dominant nature. Your description of being a sensual disciplinarian who values consistency, structure, and partnership certainly caught my attention.

Like you, I’m interested in a meaningful relationship rather than casual encounters. I value communication, respect, loyalty, and the ability to grow together as partners. The fact that you’re approaching a new chapter in life and are open to relocation suggests a level of flexibility and commitment that I find appealing.

I’d enjoy learning more about you, your interests outside of work, and what an ideal FLR looks like from your perspective. If we seem compatible, I’d be happy to exchange current photos and continue getting to know each other.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Best regards,
Lee

[Lee, San Diego CA.]

I am located in san Diego willing to explore.

[Lee, San Diego CA.]

I am 80 yrs, 6’4′ 235 LBS. I live near San Diego. I am interested. V/R Lee

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