[TropiWaves]

For one, submitting to one person isn’t the same as submitting to everyone. It would be like saying that a woman who submits to her man therefore submits to everyone, but I would bet that you can think of examples around you where that is not the case at all.

There is the possibility to compartmentalize in your psyche. You can choose to submit to only this person and that’s all. The mindset that becomes a part of him in this case would be, to submit to his wife. And that’s it.

Why do you think you would find it hard to submit to only her? As I see it, this type of relationship – any type of relationship – is special and unique for the people involved. And to me, feeling as though one must submit and yield to others, takes away from the special bond within the FLR. It becomes cheap, in my mind. Unless the man has an already passive personality to begin with, I don’t see why it would be an issue.
Another more ridiculous example to illustrate my point, but runs along the same lines: because you have sex with your wife, you must have sex with others? Sex with another person has become a major aspect of your mindset, has it not? So wouldn’t your premise apply here as well?

But there is nothing that says one must submit to others beyond their woman.

As for why you are not getting a response, I would look at the attendance and activity on this platform. It’s not that busy. That is why you aren’t getting responses. Or maybe some don’t want to answer your question. Don’t make assumptions.

• This reply was modified 1 month, 3 weeks ago by TropiWaves.

[TropiWaves]

Yes I have experienced that just recently. This man and I seemed to be really vibing and seemed to be on the same wavelength on many things. There was the small issue of over-eagerness so I asked him to tone it down so that we could get to know one another more slowly and deliberately before diving into any power exchange. And ghost. Gone.

It was tough to realize, but one must move on.

Also, Hello all, I’m new to the site and this question felt resonated because of recent experience, so this is my first post.

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