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I agree with James.. consent is everything. Did you both discuss these kinds of things prior to marriage? This is why communication is so incredibly vital.. best to discuss all potential situations that might be hard or soft limits to avoid surprises down the road.. now you’re at a place where she’s wanting to further explore and you’ve some hesitancy.

Further learning material is probably going to be a useful tool but do some research before you just jump on any one resource..

Open the lines of communication and try to see where things are stemming from.. her desires and your hesitancy. I would think if the relationship is mutually loving that she would be willing to at least open dialog and try to sort things out, out of mutual respect for one another. Level of control in the dynamic may also play a part.. relationships can fluctuate so long as both parties feel safe and their needs are met (to whatever degree your dynamic allows).

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Interesting insight. 😊

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I am currently unable to respond to messages, even to the admin? Is there a glitch in the coding that doesn’t allow this to be done? It creates a huge barrier for those of us trying to actively participate and make the website a genuine place to speak to other like-minded individuals..

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Unfortunate.. is the admin team not active on this site? Hoping to find someone like-minded and hopefully who isn’t a lightyear away. 😅

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Nice to meet you Carri.. please tell me about yourself? I am still learning the website, but I do not see many details regarding your personal profile.. admittedly mine is fairly bare, but I only signed up last night.

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